Dear Terry,
As coincidence would have it, I went to High School with a girl named Terry Rains, she had a sister named Janet Judd. I still have a picture of her in an old album. I only mention it because you have the same name.
Anyway,
I do know the Metcalf family in which you speak of. Mary Jackson Metcalf b. 15 Jul. 1829 d. 28 Aug 1903 in Lafayette, Wisconsin. Buried in the Shawnee Cemetery. I believe you may be able to order a death certificate. William is buried there as well. He’s believed to be the son of Peter Metcalf.
Hope this helps,
Sheila Jean Adkins Metcalf